What causes men, or women, to become abusers? Are they
born with an abusive personality? Are they evil? Are they monsters?
In my novel, The
Dark Room, I explore the issue of abuse which can manifest in three ways:
physical, psychological and verbal. Some abusers employ all three ways of controlling
their victim(s). But why? Through extensive research for this book, I learned
that many factors contribute to the need for power and control over another
human being.
In The Dark Room,
Hank, the antagonist experiences a traumatic event that precipitates his
downward spiral into violence. He begins to abuse alcohol and drugs, attempting
to dull the pain of dark memories. In his drunken stupors, he beats and
humiliates his wife, Stella, their daughter, Amy, and granddaughter, Jodie. After
Hank forces Amy to buy his drugs, she ends up in prison. He locks Amy’s
illegitimate daughter, Jodie, in a dark room and chains her to a bed. He beats
her and her grandmother, Stella, nearly every day.
Later, the reader learns that Hank’s father abused
him, his mother, and his brothers. Often such behaviors are perpetuated through
generations. Without intervention, the abused becomes the abuser.
Battered Woman Syndrome and child abuse result from fear
of losing control. By overpowering the vulnerable in their lives, people like
Hank maintain control the only way they think they can.
Why would anyone want to read about such horrors?
Sometimes at book events, women say to me, “I can’t read that. I lived it.” I
don’t even try to convince them that The
Dark Room is a good story, worth their time; that it includes a beautiful
romance and a happy ending. I understand. If I hadn’t married a good, kind man
and raised good, kind children, I couldn’t have written The Dark Room. It would have hit too close to home for me, too.
In The Dark Room,
Stella is befriended by her boss, Edith, who recognizes the signs of abuse.
Edith is determined to help Stella escape her seemingly hopeless situation.
Edith enlists the help of Mike a police sergeant who eventually becomes her
love interest. In Edith, Stella finds a trusted friend. Edith is supported by Mike,
a good, kind man who provides balance and reason.
I wrote The Dark
Room to bring attention to a subject most of us prefer to ignore. It’s
uncomfortable to think about innocent children being beaten, starved or hidden
away. It’s unpleasant to think about women like Stella being pushed, punched,
and called demeaning names until they believe they are worthless and powerless,
convinced they deserve the abuse.
I wrote The Dark Room to enlighten those who refuse
to believe the horror exists across all races, ages, educational levels, and socio-economic
conditions. It does.
I wrote The Dark
Room for people who suspect someone in their lives is being abused. It’s
possible (and common) for her to be in denial. Give her this book. Perhaps she will
recognize herself in Stella or one of the women Stella meets at the shelter. You
could save her life.
I wrote The Dark
Room for women who think they are trapped in abusive relationships with no way out. I want them to
recognize there are steps they can take, people they can trust, and
organizations that can empower them and save them.
Cindy L. Freeman is the author of two award-winning
short stories and three published novels: Diary in the Attic, Unrevealed and The
Dark Room. Website: www.cindylfreeman.com; Facebook page: Cindy Loomis Freeman.
Her books are available through amazon.com or hightidepublications.com
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